Catherine, thank you so much for sharing this. You could have kept that poem to yourself but I am so glad that you didn't. Many people will benefit from reading this especially if they are in that space. No one can tell you how to grieve. You lost someone so important to you, and you will go through it however you do. Snapping out of it and pulling yourself together is just going to mask all of those feelings anyway. That is the worst thing people can say!!