Getting me all choked up this morning, Arpad!! Your daughter is lucky to have two understanding parents. It's disgusting to me that kids are so mean and it broke my heart reading about her bathroom experience. It's not an easy feat being a parent and especially when you are faced with things like this. One of my daughters went from girly girl to dressing like a boy in an instant, when she came out as gay. We had no idea actually but we support her all the same. My other, we found out she was cutting after it was too late. It's the worst feeling in the world and rips you apart. I am glad that you got your girl into the therapist before that happened.
Can't we all be more accepting and teach our children to be the same?! It's 2023 people! It pains me that kids still bully over things as a trivial as a haircut and clothes. :(