I feel the same, girl!! So many of my relationships changed after I quit drinking. Many of those friends say they can "take it or leave it" but while leaving me in the dust. If drinking isn't important to them, then why the loss? I'll never understand.

Anyway, I am glad to be here to support and read. I am the listener that genuinely cares and I think that is why it's so hard for me to accept that my "so called friends" don't do the same for me.