I find so many people to be hypocrites!! I don't want to label but I agree with you. I have family members that push and push. They spend 5 days a week at church. Their whole life is church - just so they get to go to heaven? I don't get it and chose to live my life in the way you do. I try to be an upstanding, good person and that is how I choose to live my life - not in the church.