I have goosebumps and tears. I think because of the way we grew up, we want to do everything for our kids. My friend reminded me the other day that one of the worst things we can do as parents is doing everything for them. It made me feel really bad about myself but then I think there is a little truth to that. I have babied my younger daughter and will do anything for her. The other daughter is more independent. And, it's also because she's cut herself, stopped eating, now on meds so I think doing everything for her is going to help. But, I am slowly trying to step away. I was about to do all of her college stuff for her, but what is that going to do for her? Hinder her.
It is such a tough balancing act. You did everything you could and you wanted to do it all because you love them so much. At least he knows that you have his back 100% but it was good to let go and let him live. It proved to be beneficial to the both of you.
Beautiful yet sad story with a great and hopeful ending, my friend.