I hope you are setting some boundaries for this weekend. It's hard because we feel attached but it is also your day, too. I know the feeling of looking in the mirror and seeing the one person that I did NOT want to be like. It's frightening. I wish I would have set those concrete boundaries sooner but it is what it is. Our mothers may never change that much but we surely can! I'm checking out your book recommendations, too. I think I need to grab walking on eggshells!