I used to do the same mental game.... sizing up people around me... and for what? I feel you. Now we are in that older bracket and it is what it is!! It is so hard to keep up. I can't deal with all of the creams and such. I do use tretanoin from the doctor but I gave up on all the other stuff. I swear they don't do anything anyway! It would be so much easier to be a man, right?

Sadly, I was watching the housewives last night (Yes, sadly but I am watching and waiting to see if my yoga instructor is featured on the show... that's my excuse but she really might be) and they do not look good! So much plastic surgery and filler... it looks way worse than wrinkles to me! So yeah, no thanks to that.

Although, not sure if I am ready to embrace the gray's yet.... ;)