It's hard to recognize that person because I am so different now. I am not concerned YET. You never know what can happen. As of now at 17 and 20, they both rarely drink. 17 year old will go to a party once in awhile but thankfully doesn't get wild. 20 year old really has no desire. They both did see enough and know that it's just passed down to each generation. Thank you, my friend!