My parents (dad and stepmom) went through this with my grandparents and it was a big pain because they didn't plan for much. So, in turn, they have planned their whole death out to the T - with everything in place for me and my brother to have time to grieve, instead of having to pick up the pieces of their life. I am thankful that they've done that. I am sure I will feel that it's a gift. I also want to be cremated but I don't know what I want them to do with me yet! I like where you will be. :)