Oh girl, I could have written this when my youngest was her age! It's crazy how much I relate to everything you write! Good luck with this! I never knew how to stop. What I didn't have as a kid, they got... minus the alcoholic mom. They have it so good and take it for granted a lot.
Now my girl is 17, today is her birthday and here I am washing and hanging up all her clothes because... it's her birthday. I am such an enabler, shake my head at myself, and keep doing this shit! LOL!
I bet your girl looked so cute in her pjs, too. They can be so much drama!