Plenty of shitty moms and people! It's not just the dads. Some things in society are still so fucked up. I don't know why this made me think of it but when my daughter wasn't picked for a job from her dancing school, she told me that ALL of the boys were. Because there are less of them, they have "penis points" and its unfair because there weren't all solely picked on their skills. That's life though. I said shame on them but what can you do. Like you, we can just try to be better ourselves.