Thank you for sharing where to donate. How could you ever be the same after something so tragic? It's understandable why there is such a high statistics for the parents dying after. A friend of mine lost her only daughter earlier this year. I am not sure how I would go on. Like you, I have another so I would have to try to go on for her but without any kids at home, I don't know how I would survive. Ugh. I am sure it never gets easier. I tear up every time I read one of your stories. (hugs)