Uhhhhh WTF?! Was this part of the reason that you broke it off? I'm thinking probably. I would!
I hate small talk, drunk talk, bars, and instead love feeling good on the weekends, too! Thankfully, my husband doesn't drink that much. He will get a hangover after 1-2 drinks so I asked him why he even bothers? In our society, it's almost like everyone should drink or you look weird. I think that is why he still does if we go out with other people.