Yes!!! And, you will be! I know my kids will have things to say about me but I sure hope it's better than how I think of my own mother.

Yesterday was my bday and I got a card from the birth mother... she won't respect my boundaries. Mind you, I just turned 46 and her card says only this "You are almost 50. Have fun." Nice, huh?

Anyway, you are not going to be whining for your kids or grandkids attention because they will want to be around you!! <3